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Post Icon Posted: April 24 2011,11:46 am Post # 1 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

Did I read correct on the other forum?:stupid

How are things going?


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Other Forum?? :stupid


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Other Forum?? :stupid

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:stupid  :stupid  :stupid  :stupid
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Post Icon Posted: April 26 2011,6:25 am Post # 5 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

Oh c'mon....do tell!.  :say?


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Post Icon Posted: April 27 2011,4:58 am Post # 6 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

Quote (Ziggy @ April 24 2011,2:46 pm)
Did I read correct on the other forum?:stupid

How are things going?

Yes you read correct. And im not sure where I stand just yet. She is talking to me a little again. And no im not.doing good im falling apart. I don't want to believe what everybody is saying not just on the other board but friends I talk to say the same thing. Im so scared. I never saw this coming. Just a few week ago she left a message on my phone telling me about her first job and how well things were going and said at the end in a very happy.voice I Love You!!!!! And even talked after that about a bunch of stuff you know doing thing like taking the kids to FL. For a.week to.get away. We have been under so.much stress and I said we need to get away.  Then she took off for cape cod for a.skating comp. With daughter and then came back and it all blew up. But then sunday we went out to.dinner and had a good time came back and she blew up at me again. I don't get it and im not.giving up om her. I think she is out of control and not sure how to handle it. Im giving her time and space if it don't change and she still wants me gone. Then I don't know what. I need my daughter.


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Post Icon Posted: April 27 2011,5:09 am Post # 7 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

If she truly hated my guts she would not be giving me a.kiss while im sleeping before she go to work. And she would habe pulled down the pics of us on her desk.  :bowdown

Edited by lawbreaker2 on April 27 2011,5:27 am


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Post Icon Posted: April 27 2011,5:11 am Post # 8 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

Not only that but my brothers wife is in hospital with a 30%.chance of.living.


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Post Icon Posted: April 27 2011,5:30 am Post # 9 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

We even watched that movie "fireproof" together not to long ago. Was a hint my daughter said. Ok so I see the big picture but why is it not ending like the movie where they find each other and fall in love again.


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WOW, so sorry to hear this :eek  :eek that's gotta suck big time, hang in there bud it's gotta get better!.. :(
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Very sorry to hear this LB2....hang tough....say your prayers!


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This is what I don't understand yet is why everything seem fine and on april.4 said she loved.me and just before that maybe a.day or two before that we had sex and about april 8 or so she want me gone.


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Oh need.to throw in there she said the other day she don't love me anymore and she has been unhappy for a few years now. And I have changed ok maybe I have I do see where and im going.to change that.but I did not.know you were unhappy for the past 4.years. we.were.just at the bar not to long ago having.a.good time.  :drink


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Keeps this $hiat I will run away move to havasu buy me a go fast boat and. Hot 22 year old babe. And then just say screw it and party.o :drink


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Its agonizing to hear all this stuff, I can feel the pain in your words.

Most everyone else has kneejerk reaction to what you're going through and their advise seems quite harsh. I say you know better than anyone and will deal with it as you feel is right. Ya can't throw love away that easily.
Stay strong and don't let it take you down. We all wish you the best. :good

Let your HDF family help where ever we can. :peace


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Quote (Ziggy @ April 27 2011,1:06 pm)
Its agonizing to hear all this stuff, I can feel the pain in your words.

Most everyone else has kneejerk reaction to what you're going through and their advise seems quite harsh. I say you know better than anyone and will deal with it as you feel is right. Ya can't throw love away that easily.
Stay strong and don't let it take you down. We all wish you the best. :good

Let your HDF family help where ever we can. :peace

Good advise Zig.  :good

Many of us have been through the pain of a relationship that has ended. ( Myself after 29 years of marriage.) Only you LB2, can ultimately determine what is going to be best in your situation. We all mean well, and we are certainly here for you for moral support, if nothing else!

Consider all of your options...... :grouphug


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Thanks guys. I think she is going fur.early menopose and that is why im hanging.in there with her for.awhile.yet to.see what's going on. I even talked to.her mother.about.this a.d she is.going.to.try and get.her.to.go.with her.to.a.doctor her boss is even.trying.to talk to her. Its.lime.night and.day.


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Just talked.to my wife a little bit. Don't know where she is sleeping at everynight but it not with me. She said she stayed at the so called office they are building which is a old 1929 railroad car with no heat and it was very cold and very high winds last night and i could not sleep thinking about her. But talked to her about seeing a.doctor and she said she did that three months ago. She said she is fine. And she does love me but its.not.there anymore. And she is done. Im so lost right now I don't know what to do. I told her im still going to be here for her im not abandoning you cuz you never abandoned me when I was messed up. Going to give her a.few more.weeks and if nothing then I don't know what im going to do but start the big D and move on.


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Well, just hang tough and take it day by day, we're all here for ya!.. :beer
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New twist, she went to doctors this morning and I met her at her moms house and we talked . I found out she had a mole under her breast, I knew about it and just found out she had.a.little cancer spot she now has 22 stitches and I ask her for a hug cuz I needed to hold her she gave in and gave me a warm hug.


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I asked her to please come home tonight so I.can take care of you. Well see.


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WOW. Best of luck LB2. I hope only the best for you and your wife.


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Well good news and bad news.  My son has a buddy of his sleeping over so I can't sleep on the couch I told the wife to please come home tonight and I will.sleep in my truck if I have to but just come home well she is home and im not looking toward to sleeping in the truck cuz it going.down to 40* tonight and she is talking to me so maybe I can get my side of the bed at least if not I will find someplace like the floor I don't care just as.long.as she can sleep peacefully and I now she is here safe.


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I think maybe that was the problem and not you, looks like this could be a step in the right direction, hang in there things will work out we're all pulling for ya!... :good  :beer
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Well I did not.get to sleep in the bed but this morning.she asked me if I was.going.to be near by why she took.a.shower in case something happens I said I will she even let me put lotion on her back before getting dressed so I think with time we should over come this I hope.


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