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Post Icon Posted: Oct. 14 2011,8:43 pm Post # 1 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

Ya I'm still alive and well, and has been a very rough summer for me, I'm still not divorced but we are working on it, But it's been messed up, she is off her rocker and I have so much to tell you guys that it's not even funny, But I just want to tell you I'm ok for the most part, yes I get drunk every night now and she has become a pill popper and we both wound up in the ER a few times over all this, Kind of like war of the roeses, LOL And well I don't know anymore, we ay as well both be dead the way were going.  :drink


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Glad to hear you're still with us :good Sorry to hear about the problems, hope things will work out somehow for ya's.. :(
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Post Icon Posted: Oct. 15 2011,6:44 am Post # 3 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

Quote (lawbreaker2 @ Oct. 14 2011,8:43 pm)
Ya I'm still alive and well, and has been a very rough summer for me, I'm still not divorced but we are working on it, But it's been messed up, she is off her rocker and I have so much to tell you guys that it's not even funny, But I just want to tell you I'm ok for the most part, yes I get drunk every night now and she has become a pill popper and we both wound up in the ER a few times over all this, Kind of like war of the roeses, LOL And well I don't know anymore, we ay as well both be dead the way were going.  :drink

This can't end well....

Y'all have to find a way to break out and start living again....... and maybe cut back on the drinking to just 6 nights a week...... :laugh

Seriously, a wise man once said.... "Living well is the best revenge..." But first you have to ensure you continue living!  

Hang in there!  Survive!  Thrive!




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Post Icon Posted: Oct. 15 2011,10:37 pm Post # 4 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

I know I have to try and clean up but it's been a long hard road and it's hard to let go of the bottle now, and she can't put down the pills, it's like were killing eachother slowly. She want to end this so we can start over, but I don't think it could start over, like my buddy said when this all started to get messy, one of you are going to to wined up daed before its all over.


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Post Icon Posted: Oct. 16 2011,6:12 am Post # 5 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

Better listen to your buddy, that $hit is not worth dying over.. :beat
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No....it's not worth it at all!

I had to learn how to live again, and now life is good. It takes time, but you can't keep going with the self-destructive life style.
Work hard at giving yourself permission to be well, and be happy!! You'll be glad you did in the long run!


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Post Icon Posted: Oct. 17 2011,7:45 am Post # 7 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

Quote (lawbreaker2 @ Oct. 15 2011,10:37 pm)
I know I have to try and clean up but it's been a long hard road and it's hard to let go of the bottle now, and she can't put down the pills, it's like were killing eachother slowly. She want to end this so we can start over, but I don't think it could start over, like my buddy said when this all started to get messy, one of you are going to to wined up daed before its all over.

You have to do much more than try...

I thought my world was coming to an end several years ago and I had to make a decision.

I made the right one and now have an excellent relationship with my Ex and son, and am moving forward and getting on with life.

Not meaning to sound harsh here, but STOP IT!
Suck it up, get new friends and MOVE ON!! "Just Do It!"

I know you can do it, after all I did and I was a wreck who thought he had no hope for a future......

Hang in there!   :good




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Post Icon Posted: Oct. 17 2011,10:56 am Post # 8 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

Quote (Fragile Magic @ Oct. 17 2011,7:45 am)
Quote (lawbreaker2 @ Oct. 15 2011,10:37 pm)
I know I have to try and clean up but it's been a long hard road and it's hard to let go of the bottle now, and she can't put down the pills, it's like were killing eachother slowly. She want to end this so we can start over, but I don't think it could start over, like my buddy said when this all started to get messy, one of you are going to to wined up daed before its all over.

You have to do much more than try...

I thought my world was coming to an end several years ago and I had to make a decision.

I made the right one and now have an excellent relationship with my Ex and son, and am moving forward and getting on with life.

Not meaning to sound harsh here, but STOP IT!
Suck it up, get new friends and MOVE ON!! "Just Do It!"

I know you can do it, after all I did and I was a wreck who thought he had no hope for a future......

Hang in there!   :good

Well put, FM!!  :good


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Post Icon Posted: Oct. 18 2011,5:42 am Post # 9 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

Quote (Fragile Magic @ Oct. 17 2011,8:45 am)
Quote (lawbreaker2 @ Oct. 15 2011,10:37 pm)
I know I have to try and clean up but it's been a long hard road and it's hard to let go of the bottle now, and she can't put down the pills, it's like were killing eachother slowly. She want to end this so we can start over, but I don't think it could start over, like my buddy said when this all started to get messy, one of you are going to to wined up daed before its all over.

You have to do much more than try...

I thought my world was coming to an end several years ago and I had to make a decision.

I made the right one and now have an excellent relationship with my Ex and son, and am moving forward and getting on with life.

Not meaning to sound harsh here, but STOP IT!
Suck it up, get new friends and MOVE ON!! "Just Do It!"

I know you can do it, after all I did and I was a wreck who thought he had no hope for a future......

Hang in there!   :good

Well said, life does go on gotta make the best of it.. :good
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Yep!!  :good


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Post Icon Posted: Oct. 19 2011,7:58 pm Post # 11 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

I'm trying, but I'm alreadly 6 sheet to the wind, It is so hard to put the bottle down, I  keep telling myself to stop but I cant now. I know I will in due time.


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Post Icon Posted: Oct. 20 2011,5:35 am Post # 12 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

Not trying hard enough!!... :beat
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Post Icon Posted: Oct. 20 2011,6:28 am Post # 13 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

Get some help with that LB2.
Find somebody to talk to. Break that pattern Buddy!!


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Post Icon Posted: Oct. 20 2011,8:26 am Post # 14 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

Quote (DirtySquirty @ Oct. 20 2011,6:28 am)
Get some help with that LB2.
Find somebody to talk to. Break that pattern Buddy!!

I was just thinking that it's time for Professional help.  :peace


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Post Icon Posted: Oct. 20 2011,9:38 pm Post # 15 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply

Quote (Fragile Magic @ Oct. 17 2011,7:45 am)
Quote (lawbreaker2 @ Oct. 15 2011,10:37 pm)
I know I have to try and clean up but it's been a long hard road and it's hard to let go of the bottle now, and she can't put down the pills, it's like were killing eachother slowly. She want to end this so we can start over, but I don't think it could start over, like my buddy said when this all started to get messy, one of you are going to to wined up daed before its all over.

You have to do much more than try...

I thought my world was coming to an end several years ago and I had to make a decision.

I made the right one and now have an excellent relationship with my Ex and son, and am moving forward and getting on with life.

Not meaning to sound harsh here, but STOP IT!
Suck it up, get new friends and MOVE ON!! "Just Do It!"

I know you can do it, after all I did and I was a wreck who thought he had no hope for a future......

Hang in there!   :good

Well said FM!!!!  

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I refused to get down, be put down. I'm now heading down a better road and real happy now. Drinking is not the answer!!! That will just cause bigger issues.  Don't let her know she is getting to you and that your unhappy. Chin up and move on!!!!  You want my number?? Just ask!!! You have friends, USE THEM!!!!   :good


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Soo LB2 wassupp there bud hope things are getting better, we're all behind ya here... :good
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Quote (WATERDOG @ Oct. 20 2011,8:26 am)
Quote (DirtySquirty @ Oct. 20 2011,6:28 am)
Get some help with that LB2.
Find somebody to talk to. Break that pattern Buddy!!

I was just thinking that it's time for Professional help.  :peace

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He ain't been on here for a while now, hope things are working out.. :stupid
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