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Post Icon Posted: May 10 2004,7:02 pm Post # 1 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Not looking for sympathy...just want all of my boating friends to be in the know.  :grouphug

I have been given several tests over the last weekend to watch my HCG hormone levels. The results of my ultra sound last week and all the blood work we've done over the past several days points towards some bad news. It appears that my HCG levels are not rising fast enough and the embryo will be dying in the near future and I will be having a miscarriage within the next month. And the worst part is I can't do a single thing to stop it. :(

I have a couple choices. 1) I can wait for mother nature to do her thing which can happen today or in a month from now...or 2) have another ultra sound next week to confirm the embryo is dead and then have a D&C to clean out my uterus. Either choice is not easy...and either way I don't come home with a baby.

BUT there is some good news...I don't have problems getting pregnant  :p so Miller & I can start trying again within a month. So maybe in the near future we will be pregnant again.  :good  Say some prayers that it all works out for the best!!! :)

I enjoyed every minute of being pregnant and can't wait to enjoy it for a longer period of time (hopefully a full 40 weeks next time!;)

Love to you all,
Lindsey
PS Now I'm off for that long awaited glass of wine!  :D
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Post Icon Posted: May 10 2004,7:10 pm Post # 2 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
I am so sorry to hear this, I wish the best for you guys.

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Post Icon Posted: May 10 2004,7:29 pm Post # 3 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
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Post Icon Posted: May 10 2004,8:28 pm Post # 4 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Sorry to hear that and hope for the best. My sister went through hell with all the shots and the brother in law spanking it in the cup. Finally I have a niece thats 5 now.

Sister in law had a miscarrige the first go around and now they have John Jr who is 4 mos old.

Keep your chin up and stay healthy!!

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Post Icon Posted: May 10 2004,8:31 pm Post # 5 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
sorry to hear.My wife went thru the same thing on the first pregnancy.
Good news second time no problems and now we have 2 year old screamer :good

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Post Icon Posted: May 10 2004,8:37 pm Post # 6 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Sorry to hear this.   :(

I wish you and Brad the best of luck in the future.

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Post Icon Posted: May 10 2004,9:13 pm Post # 7 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
I so sorry to hear that.. :( I will pray for you all.....Have faith and you will be holding your bundle of joy in the near future.

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Post Icon Posted: May 10 2004,9:25 pm Post # 8 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Wifey & Miller,

I am very sorry to hear of your bad news. You will be in our prayers.

My wife having had a couple of miscarriages, I know what a difficult time this is for you guys. I think these things happen for a reasons beyond our comprehension.

The good news is we also have 4 great healthy children.

If there is anything I can do for you, please don't hesitate to let me know.

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Post Icon Posted: May 10 2004,9:34 pm Post # 9 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Sorry to hear the news Lindsey and Brad. :(  I can identify though, as it happened to my ex-wife and I on our first pregnancy.  We tried again and received a healthy and beautiful girl. I think that it's a good sign that you're not too discouraged from trying again in the future. :good

You will be in our prayers. :grouphug

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Post Icon Posted: May 11 2004,5:03 am Post # 10 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Lindsey,
Our prayers are with you too.  My wife and I went 8 years tryin.  She lost one at 15 weeks, and another at 21 weeks.  Those were really hard to take.  We were very blessed to finaly recieve our son inb '89.
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Post Icon Posted: May 11 2004,5:39 am Post # 11 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
I'm so sorry to hear that :(   I'll pray for you two and hope that you'll have a successful childbirth soon.



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Post Icon Posted: May 11 2004,5:43 am Post # 12 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
So sorry to hear that :( , best of luck to both of you!...
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Post Icon Posted: May 11 2004,8:37 am Post # 13 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Sad news :(  but you seem to be very understanding on the ways of life :good Makes thing a little easier to deal with, still not easy but it helps.

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Post Icon Posted: May 11 2004,9:22 am Post # 14 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Hopefully ya saw my post elsewhere..........I am thinking of you............How are you today? Pm me if need be. Chin up, everything happens for a reason. Oh BTW, did ya have your glass of wine?

It's a whole new year!

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Post Icon Posted: May 11 2004,9:46 am Post # 15 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
I'm so sorry , i'm speachless -  My sympothies - to your  hearts - chris

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Post Icon Posted: May 11 2004,12:23 pm Post # 16 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
We are doing good...like I said please no sympathy (I don't do well with pity) ;) We are looking forward to trying again and when ever it's meant to be we will have a child, I have no doubt about that.  :D You can all rest assured Miller will be gett'n lucky for a while longer  :love

On a happier note: Please remember to mark your calendars and come join us in a birthday bash at the lake for Mr. Miller the weekend of July 24th.
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Thanks for the kind words guys! It is great to hear that so many others have had success on the second try.

But to be honest I was getting attached to this one. I am usually a very rational person and I know that everything is happening for a reason and it is for the best. But that doesn’t change my feelings and the fact that I wanted this one and I will never be able to have it.  :(  

Oh well we will be fine with time and I really appreciate the kind words!

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Post Icon Posted: May 11 2004,10:35 pm Post # 18 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
My wife and I experienced almost exactly the same situation 25 years ago, so I know very well how you both feel.

The good news is, we have a terrific 23 year old boy today!  :D

Keep on pluggin' away and you surely will be rewarded soon. :good

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