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Havasu Doug
Pisces
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North Padre Island, Texas
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Posted: Mar. 12 2003,2:35 am |
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I just got home and read this sad news. Thanks Mike for posting this thread as I probably wouldn't have made it over to hotboat tonight otherwise. Chuck is registered on this board as "Rat" although he didn't post very much here.
On hotboat.net, one of the things he was known for was his use of smileys. There were MANY times that I couldn't reply to his quoted posts with one smiley, because he had already used the limit in his. Something else not mentioned so far in the hotboat thread was his use of quotations. Sometimes it seemed that every other word in his posts had quotation marks around them. He was truly one of a kind.
K3 "gave" me about 200 of my posts on hotboat.net in the "Who is still up?" thread. Like Mike said, we spent MANY nights getting to know each other in that thread. It was K3 who announced the challenge to race the "JazzyJess" thread to reach 1,000 posts. The thread just kept going though. K3 was definately a "Power Poster", but he disappeared for awhile. I remember wondering what was going on with him, but I didn't realize how rough it had been for him lately. When we heard from him again, it seemed to be scaled way back.
It's kind of eerie looking back now, but his location listed in his profile on this board says "Lost". I know he appreciated the friendships he had with the people on the boards. I just wish there was something more we could have done for him. His very last post on hotboat.net simply said Quote | "I'm still on here sometimes but really don't have much to say" | He will surely be missed. He is in a better place now and not feeling the physical pain he spoke so much of. My prayers and condolences to his mother and family.
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GoFastRacer
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Posted: Mar. 12 2003,7:21 am |
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My sincere condolences!..
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Her454
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Posted: Mar. 12 2003,8:28 am |
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Here is the address to send cards etc if you wish.
Penelope K. DeCoster 1129 Mallard Drive Bradley, IL 60915-1321
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HolyMoly
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Posted: Mar. 12 2003,11:34 pm |
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I just read about K3 tonight. Very sad news. It brings an instant reality check to much of the senseless bashings that go on on HB. My HB usage has been way down for the past couple months so I did not notice he had been absent, as I had been absent. But, you see people for while, then they drop off, and then they come back and so forth.
I gotta tell you - K3's use of quotes and smileys drove me nuts and I usually skipped over most of his messages due to my lack of attention span. I actually wrote a reply on correct quotation usage and how his messages were distracting to read - but I never sent it as I figured it was just his style and I was being an ass as usual. I think most of us now see quite a bit of insight in almost all of his posts.
It is hard for most of us to comprehend taking our own lives. I can't even imagine the level of pain (mental and/or physical) someone has to be in to do this. Depression is very powerful. I am lucky in that it is not my nature to get very depressed. But, at the same time, I have a difficult time understanding and relating to people who have serious depression - and many times don't take things as serious as I should. I will make a concious effort to be more aware so that I might be able to help others to avoid K3's end. I have two sisters who have had serious bouts of depression, and now feel lucky to realize they survived as they had openly talked of suicide. While I don't think I have the ability to personally help, I do know that I have to find someone that can.
God bless K3 and I pray you are in a better place now.
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miller19j
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Posted: Mar. 13 2003,11:05 am |
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Quote (Havasu Doug @ Mar. 13 2003,10:57 am) | Chuck's passing is a reminder to all of us that these are real people posting on these boards. Â Chuck and I replied to each others posts enough for me to consider him a real friend. Â The sad thing is I have NEVER seen a picture of him. Â I've seen his cars and boats, but never him. Â I have met alot of you in person. Â Â Others that I have not met, I have seen their personal pics. Â There have been alot of you that I have introduced myself to when I've seen you in person because I already knew what you looked like. Â Â Considering this, I just added a personal pic to my profile on this board. Â It's nothing great, but it helps in identifying myself. Â I hope that some of you will share your's as well. Â |
Doug,
You were easy to spot the first time I met you. You were the guy getting out of the truck with the HavasuDoug license plate. Its kind of funny when you meet people from the forums face to face, you feel like you already know them but, you also feel kind of strange acting like you know them at the same time.
Hey Sleek Bite Me!
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